Showing posts with label caring for others. Show all posts
Showing posts with label caring for others. Show all posts

02 April, 2024

Where does the time go?

Just discovered I missed my post yesterday.  :-(  This is another reminder for me to make my posts earlier in the day.  Nothing spectacular to report.  I got caught up in watching my YouTube videos in the evening... then got so tired I just went to bed not even thinking about the post.  I suppose that is life as a senior... maybe.  :-)  

I can do this!  I need to find a better path.  So, I will keep working on this.

This morning I became aware (again) of how fast time passes through our lives.  I make lists for every day.  The things I hope to get to, the things I have to get done.  Every day things come up that aren't on my lists.  I am trying to get better at deciding what is essential to get done, at what will make a difference in making my life better and my income greater so I can do more things.  I don't know that I am winning my battle, but I do keep trying.

When you are the only one to do anything that needs to be done, it can be a challenge to find the path through all those little things.  Everything takes time.  Showers, laundry, making and eating food, washing dishes, vacuuming, sweeping, etc.  Living in one small room is also a challenge for my goals.  

I think it was last weekend I found a video where a man in another country was trying to help people in very, very poor circumstances.  This video was about a young woman who was forced to be with an older man and had a child at 14.  She also had another child about four years later.  By the time of the video she was away from that man who didn't treat her well and was trying to care for her children alone.  She (and her children) lived in a small metal building that had housed a cow in the other half of it.  Metal structures get hot in the sun.

I think she worked for her housing because there didn't seem to be an cash available to her, or very little money.  She was collecting food that would be considered garbage for them to eat.  The had some kind of mattresses on the ground.  I wondered what happened to her housing when it rained.  She did create a separate space for a toilet area.  I think she was trying to grow food in a very small part of her dirt area, but the soil looked like hard clay because of the heat where she lived.

I wondered what she could hope for without an education or money or anyone to help her.  When the video was done and her living space was changed to something much better, I wondered who would steal it all from her when the man was gone.  It was a hard video to watch and to think about.

There are so many millions of people suffering in our world.  How do we help them?

Even if Working Together was fully funded, there would still be millions we could not help.  Any government that exists cannot help everyone.  Churches do the best they can, but the wealthiest church that exists cannot help everyone.  

The cry we hear is that the government is the one to trust with the task -- and to accomplish this goal they want to take everything from everybody (starting with the wealthy) and then share it among all the people.  I wonder what that would be per person if we actually did the math.  

Even this will not work.  All these cries forget that the people in charge never want to suffer the slightest lack.  These kinds of leaders take what they want first, then they forget about the poor because the poor cannot fight back.

God told us what He thought we should do.  

I try to see/discover what could be done to help as many as possible without taking away their freedoms and respect.   I still come up with the problem that everyone cannot be helped in every way.  PLUS, any effort to help others has to deal with those who steal for themselves.

I have also spent my life trying to decide what is enough.  What are the basic needs we have to find to survive and grow and build a better world for the future?  Food, shelter, and work that benefits us and the world, or that cares for the vulnerable, of which I am now one, are the first basic needs.  Then we have to deal with other basic needs that differ by person/family.  

How much will this cost?  How can we build a place that will accomplish this?  

The End Times create a whole new environment for surviving.  I don't know how Christians can protect themselves in a world of growing hate and violence, corrupt governments, and poverty.  I remember watching Hunger Games and wondered how it might reflect our future.

One of my ongoing projects is to prep for disasters.  The first goal is just enough to get through the first two weeks so you can find out what else needs to be done to survive longer if that is required.  This is the topic of a lot of the videos I watch.  Everyone has a different way of preparing for their family.  

If a serious emergency happens, life will change in so many ways.  People who don't have the supplies they need will want to take them away from others.  And there won't be law and order anymore.  I imagine America will become somewhat like those other places we see in the news: violent and abusive and ruled by dictators, criminals, or military forces.

Time seems to fly by because we are so busy with our own survival needs, we don't have time to notice all these changes happening.  We trust our government and/or have to deal with what it creates.  There isn't an easy solution to what prophecy warns us is coming.  We have to stop and think about our lives now so we can prepare for what is coming.  

I hope you can do that.

In Christ,  

Deborah Martin











24 July, 2018

Tuesday, 24 July 2018

I discovered the NOTEPAD option on my new (used) computer this morning... which led to making "instant access" files on my desktop!  YES!  Such a great change.  I hate searching for files when I have to go into the main storage pathway.. this will help my daily process.

I already created my shopping list file, my monthly budget file, and a daily meal file (so I can work on my portion control issues in eating).  I also created my ongoing to-do list file and a file to make a long list of things I want to get done sooner or later... just a main list, I guess.  It should help.  I hope to plan my day with these as a quick-access reference points.

I made the daily meal file printable, with a daily goal limits at the top.  I hope it helps.  I am getting better with my choices, now I need to work on my total consumption.  I keep remembering that statement from Dr. Lustig :: "A calorie is a calorie."  How much we eat is as important as what foods we choose to eat.  In the long view, having my beloved treats will not matter, just so I make the bulk of my calorie choices in the healthy ranges.  Lessening my animal-related foods helps me a lot.  I think the process is taking me to a better place in healthy eating.

It is a good day already!  :-)

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I was awakened at about 5:30 again, so my current duties were done... even a little faster today... only one hour and a quarter!  I tried some "short cuts" today... hope they were OK to do, nothing critical.

Focus on the Family has another program on today that is noteworthy.  It is part one of a recorded message by a comical person (Ken David, I believe) who shares some deep topics that can really be difficult to deal with in the normal process of family and church life in a way that even teens can benefit from. It is hard for teens to navigate our secular world, especially when they get to college.  I went to college as an older adult and I was astounded, and that was back in the late 1980's.  I can't imagine how hard it is now.

One of the goals for Focus is to have this program shared with teens.  In checking the web link, it seems to be a DVD option for the entire presentation.  I would share it with as many teens as I could, if I had the money.  I have accessed their free resource program in the past, with items I still remember, so it has always been a giving goal for me to return the blessing when GOD allows me to... so others can ask for the items from Focus they need.  Keep that in mind as you order... it might be a life-changer for your youth groups... or just some individual teens GOD has put in your life.

I listen to KPDQ almost every day, so I hear these programs often.

Family Life is part of the Campus Crusade for Christ organization... renamed CRU, I guess.  That is what I understand it to be.  They have an author on this week that is also dealing with young women going off to college... and how to handle the problems they might encounter.  This would be a book gift, if you have someone to share it with.  I think the principle that we become like those we hang with is so critical to remember... and it has been stated in one of their two programs for this presentation.

This is why GOD talks so much about being careful who you associate with, who you marry, who you become yoked with in any way (friendship, partners, business, etc.) - schools can also be a minefield of problems if you don't think about your future before you get there.  Secular institutions are in a war with godly principles, but I hear that Christian institutions are also being overcome with the values of our world.

It is really hard to work through the lonely times of moving to a new place.  When people are drinkers, it always seems easier to go to a bar or night club and meet new people, especially with the false bravery of drugs and alcohol inside your body.  It really is a stupid choice.  You meet people that base their lives on addictions, and no one is really themselves.  Going to a Christian group has problems, too, but they are completely different in the need to find good people to be friends with.  I have searched out both, and I would say you are much better off with a group of Christians and a commitment to GOD, patience for the process of making friends, and wisdom to work through the false fronts everyone has as they search for their future, too.

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I guess that was enough seriousness for now.  I came across an obituary this weekend, of a young man who took his own life, a Catholic young man, a struggling young man who had a great future in GOD's Kingdom.  We needed his talents.  I don't know how the issue of suicide works in our planned existence in GOD's realm, but I know it is a great loss, and I wish we could stop it.  Emotions are hard to work through.  Sometimes the future takes too long to get to us and the pain we are living through is more than we can bear.  I keep searching for some way to stop this process but it is part of life, it seems.  Young people are easy to victimize.  I hope we can find ways to protect them as we go to the future.

Until next time,
In Christ,

Deborah Martin
work2gather.us

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May GOD watch over those we love and care about, who have not found Him yet, and keep them safe until they can find their place in His Body here on earth.

May Christians gather and support one another.
May our future become shared, powerful, supportive, dedicated to the things of GOD, and blessed.
May we discover a new way of being Christian together, and fight the battles of our secular world together.

May GOD have mercy on the suffering.
May we see others in need, and find a way to help them.

Amen.